Saturday, December 18, 2010

Cam's Arrival in Colorado!

I decided to post this here about the events that brought our precious little boy into the world. Cameron (Cam for short) Doc Corder arrived at 5:59 a.m. MST on December 17, 2010. He weighted 6 lbs 11 oz and was 19 1/2 inches long. He is healthy and doing great!

So here is the run down of what led to his quick birth on the 17th:
For starters, Chad was up at Alma (where his apartment is located) when he worked at Breck on Thursday (16th). So I was home with my in-laws like normal. I got to bed with having maybe my 'normal' contractions that had caused me to dialat to 4cm and about 75 to 80% effifaced (which was the same as last week when I went the hospital and saw my doctor on Tuesday). At about 250 a.m. I woke up to pain. Well, with being asleep and no thinking if I was just dreaming of pain or not, I got up to use the restroom. I soon found out that I wasn't imagining the pain. But I waited (cause that's what I was told) for an hour, timing them. At 355 right before I called Chad to wake him up, my water broke. Okay, now I don't have a doubt that I must leave for the hospital. I get dress, do downstairs to wake up my in-laws. We leave the house about 430. Of course when I had gone to bed there was no snow on the ground and I told Chad and my in-laws that "Just you watch. As soon as we have snow, that's when Cam decides to come." Low and behold when we left the house, there was at least two inches of snow! And of course, as soon as we get on the road, my contrations come harder and faster! We made it to Divide which was about 30 minutes from the house, my contractions were coming two minutes apart! What?! I have to make it to the Springs! I had back labor and could feel him dropping. I'm trying so hard NOT to push or anything like that. Panting, occasionally scream and I'm a back seat driver (my poor father in law). And getting closer to the springs, my water break yet again. And all I feel was gushing with each contration which is now about a minute apart if I was lucky. Well, we pull up to the hospital, my mother-in-law wheels me in. I make it to the room where they "check" to see what's going on. The nurse examines me and says "You have no cervix!" Then I basically get wheeled into a delivery room and they start taking the bed apart because he is ready. As they wheel me down the hall, all I was thinking was "Chad's not here yet." I knew he was only 15 minutes behind us which needless to say he was speeding to get there since my mother in law had called to see where he was and he could hear my screaming in the background. Anywho, after the break down the bed, I'm told that there is no time for an epidural or the antibotics, since I was postive for Group B Strep. YAY! I'm doing this completely natural! So they start having me do some pushing. I pushed for a total of TWENTY minutes! Chad arrived about half way through. When he walked into the room, Cam was already crowning. Yay, my hubby was there for his boy's birth! All I have to say is this: WOW! And pain, and buring feelings. I screamed a few times, but I was told not to because Cam would get sucked back up and just to bear down. Well, like I said, twenty minutes of pushing and our little man was brought into this world!
Cameron is a beautiful little boy, if Chad and I can brag about him :) Since I didn't have antibotics for delivery, we both have to stay at the hosptial for 48 hours. So hopefully tomorrow morning/afternoon we will be able to go home. Cam is doing great! We are getting this nursing this down pretty well, thanks to Ariel for all the tips this summer, great nurses and the latication consultant! He is a good baby and looks like his daddy! :) There are some traces of me  there too: like his ears are a nice mix between Chad and I's ears. He likes water for his first bath, just like his dad. Sadly, he has my veins, which means it is not going to be fun for blood being drawn because they are so small and hard to get to! But he is cute. And Chad has been so amazing with his little boy. I love watching him with Cam: holding him, changing him (which Chad has done all of it), and helping me with nursing. It's just been wonderful.
I'm sure many are asking of how I am doing: I am doing good. I haven't had to have an IV since I had a short labor, so that has been nice (no needles!). I've been able to move around decently with pain: I tore a little on top and bottom, but the nurse says I should heal fine and very swollen which has gone down. But I've been able to eat regular meals! YAY! And I'm doing well. It is still strange to think that this little human belongs to Chad and I: Cam goes where ever we go... but I love holding him. I hum his 'hymn' to him to help him calm down (thanks Ariel!) and put him to sleep. It's nice so far and I know I have plenty of help.
My mom arrived this evening in Colorado! I'm so excited to have her here to help and get to know her first grandchild. Chad's mom and dad have been awesome! This is their 14th grandchild, but they love him like he is their first. :)
Life is good. Even though my labor was short and quick, and I didn't appreciate the pain at the time, I know Heavenly Father watched out for me. Chad got to the hosptial when he needed to safely, I got to the hosptial that I wanted to deliever in and didn't have Cam in the car and got there safely as well. It has been nice being able to recover a little more quickly than I might have if labor had been longer and I had the epidural. I wish that I could have had the anitbotics just for Cam's sake, but I just pray that Cam will not have the potential side effects of being group b strep positive. and I have an amazing husband who is SO wonderful at being a daddy :)

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

A few pictures

Here is Cam's crib. yes, I know. It is filled with stuff animals at the moment, but he will be staying in his cradle which is in our room and I didn't take a picture of. Chad's mom made the Winnie-the-Pooh curtains that are hanging up. Way cute!

Cam's dresser full of clothes for the first several months. The dresser was given to my in-laws which are letting me borrow for Cam :) The swing was another gift. The diaper bag on the right is what my mom made! it is awesome and I LOVE IT!

This is on Cam's dresser right now. I painted the frog this summer with Ariel Kolste at a pottery barn place. I really like frogs, and so does Chad. The picture on the left is my latest picture of Cam, when I am about 34 1/2 weeks along. I think he looks just like Chad but he might have my lips :) And he has some chubby checks and it looks like hair too :) Yeah, this is where I found out that his head was measuring a few weeks ahead of me: he inheirted it from his daddy :) He's so cute and I can't wait to see him!

Got a Plan!

Chad and I went to see my doctor today for my weekly check up...nothing has really changed since last wednesday: still around 3-4 cm and all that. Basically, we have a plan now which makes me feel lots better and not as worried/stressed. The plan is this: wait for hard contractions 5 minutes apart for an hour or if water breaks, come to the hospital. Since I will be 39 weeks this saturday, hopefully the nurses at the hosptial won't mind if I stayed. lol. And if Cam doesn't come early, meaning anytime before next monday, then my doctor wants me to come in EARLY monday morning to be induced! :) Granted, I'd rather my water break sometime on Sunday so we go to the hosptial just because I know that my body has its own natural progression. But, if that doesn't happen...then I'll get induced and Cam will hopefully come sometime Monday :) YAY! I am in a much better mood just knowing there is a plan and what to really look and watch out for now. So... I must say, that I want Cam to wait till my mom comes.. which will be this Saturday! After meeting with the doctor, I looked at Chad and was like "it's going to be different towing around a third person next week" But we are WAY excited to have him and get to really know him. I have to say, that I have learned that this boy likes to stretch out like his daddy (meaning I get little feet on my left side all the time!). So yeah, there is the plan and we will just see what Cam actually does :)

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Anyone have any Patience to spare?

I am now 38 weeks pregnant and playing the...waiting game! I have to say that I know I technically have 13 days to my "due date", but I am ready for Cam to be here in my arms or my husband's arms or to play with his little feet on the outside rather than them kicking me in the side. And the only reason why I am frustrated/upset with playing this waiting game is because... my doctor told me two weeks ago that he had dropped, i was almost 2 cm, and that I would have him soon... of course, that was her guess. Last tuesday, she told me that I was so far effifaced and dilated, and with how far we live, that if I was having contractions that were 5-7 minutes apart for an hour to go ahead and come to the hospital even if I wasn't having any "pain" and they shouldn't discharged me. So...this past wednesday, Chad and I decided to go ahead and go to the hosptial since we were doing what we were told...we get checked in at the waiting area, get checked by the nurse (75-80% effifaced, almost 4 cm dialated) and we wait for a while. An hour later, the nurse says that your doctor says to go on home. Huh? What? My contractions were just not "strong enough" and my doctor says to go home... ::sighs:: And that I should come back if my contractions start to take my breath away or my water breaks. Sadly, neither have happened and it has been 5 days! Granted, I know that Cam will come when he wants to...but... come on! I guess I am in the mind set that well if you are going to come early and my body is going so far.. let's keep going and finish it! :) Don't get me wrong, my pregnancy has gone really well and I have enjoyed feeling him move and hiccup...but I am ready to have him out and Chad wants to hold his son so badly. Everyone wants to meet him and get to know him, as much as I do. I guess what is frustrating me is that told one thing and my body just isn't doing what they want. My only fear right now, is really NOT the weather (we don't have ANY snow!) but the fact that when I start having "painful" contrations is that I might have a short labor and not get to the hospital in time. It is just a scary thought for us. And granted I am having/feeling contractions all the time (not really recording them often) that are feeling more tight and have some pain, but the pain doesn't last long. So... come on body and my baby boy! Oh well, there is our rant for the month!
So last sunday during church, my in-laws, my mom, chad and I made a guess of Cam's birthdate, weight, length, and other items based on above info.. Sadly, Chad's day (the 9th) passed. My sis-in-law's day (11th) passed. And so far my father in law's day (12th) is passing. So far my mother in law's and mine day (13th) is possible and my mom guessed the 15th. If Cam comes early, I'd love it to be th 13th because it is one of my best friend's birthday or the 14th because it was my grandma Canter's birthday. But if Cam doesn't come early, I want it to be the 18th or 19th that way my mom will be here for his birth..
So again.. anyone have any patience to spare for me? Cause I just want to know and have this baby boy of ours soon!